Done with school bullies in mind
There has been a lot in the media recently about school bullies and the impact on not only the victim, but the other class members, the teachers, the families and school in general. This is an scary infographic & even though it is American based, still think it has relevance to teachers in New Zealand.
He was getting bullied in many different ways, he got abuse at school and outside of school. He got threatened with knives and was tefified to leave his own home because the bully’s used to knock on his door and wait round the cornor to batter him. His life was hell, but he was a great lad, He was a Royal Marine Cadet and always wanted to join the Royal Marines, he had great mates in his cadets and was well known.
He turned 13 on the 24th March and was found hanging on the 4th April.
Bulling killed him, he took his own life because he couldn’t take it anymore, his whole life thrown away, such a good, respectful boy, gone.
This boy well I knew him, he didn’t deserve none of this.
Neither do any of you, I’m here to help, so that we don’t loose any of you the way we lost little Brenn, I’m here always, you need to speak to me, thats what I’m here for, I can help because I know what you are going through. I’ve been bullied nearly my whole life.
You’re not alone. You all matter.
Anonymous asked: Thank you so much for your advice about my mom. It really did make me feel better and yes I have my dad to talk to and my sis but it's still hard to go through because I feel so alone.
Thank you for being here xox
You’re very welcome, I’m always here to help…
I know you may seem alone but maybe if you spoke to your dad, or if not him your sister about it things would change.
Keep smiling, you’re worth it.xox
I’ve sat here and cried, he didn’t deserve anything and he didn’t deserve to have his life thrown away.
My biggest peice of advice to you all is:
NO MATTER HOW BAD IT GETS NEVER TURN TO SUICIDE, BECAUSE YOU MATTER.
Anonymous asked: Hi.
I am bullied by my mother. She smacks me, pulls my hair, tells me im worthless, calls me a bitch and pretty much every other name in the book. I was really close to cutting myself but I couldnt do it. I keep thinking things will get better and they have a little bit the bullying is still going on....
Do you have any advice for me?
Hello,
First of all do not cut, it is not worth ending your life because it will get better, you don’t deserve this, but you don’t deserve your life being thrown away either.
Now you are not worthless, your the exact oppiosite of worthless, you matter this coming from your mother is worse than getting bullied in school and her calling you names might make you feel worthless but you’re not. This happening may lead to you not feeling safe in your own home, have you got anyone to speak to at home other than your mum?
I’m going to give you a number, 0800 44 1111 this is the number for childline, childline is a telephone service that specialises in this department, an their advice would be alot better than mine, they also allow you to stay anonymous and dont ask for any personal details.
Now I will alway be here to speak too, I’m on most of the day exspecially over the next two weeks, so if you need me don’t hesitate to leave me a message, I hope I have been helpful. You can put anything in my ask box, anything at all and I will be here.
Remember, YOU MATTER no matter what anyone says.
fucking-riddle-deactivated20110 asked: I just wanted to say that what are you doing is awesome and I really appreciate it.
I’m just doing what I should have done years ago…
I’m glad I’m helping people, people need support and thats what I’m here for.
Eighth Grader Fights Bullies With YouTube Video
An eighth grade girl in Westport, Conn., has reportedly created a YouTube video as a mute protest against bullying.
The girl behind the video, 13-year-old Alye Pollack, has drawn thousands of views and hundreds of comments to her clip.
The video evokes Bob Dylan’s short film for “Subterranean Homesick Blues” as Alye holds up a series of signs to tell her story and make her point. “Will high school get worse?” she asks in one sign.
You can read more about the story here.
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